Sunday, June 17, 2007

Aaron's First Father's Day




A proud father holding his happy daughter is such a joyous sight. The highlight of my day is watching the huge sweet smile on Addison's face while saying "Da-da" (or something of a similar tone :-) as Aaron walks through the door in the evening. Addison is usually eating her dinner during Aaron's grand entrance, but always stops just long enough to receive a kiss from her favorite guy before turning her attention back to one of her favorite activities...eating. I always knew Aaron would be a wonderful father, but seeing him in action far outweighs my predictions of his capabilities in what I believe is his best role yet - FATHERHOOD. He is Addison's consummate teacher, protector, and co-biggest fan (yeah, mommy and daddy share that position). Oh yeah, he's also Addison's favorite mode of transportation. When Addison sees Aaron putting on that Bjorn carrier---those plump little legs start moving and those arms start waving like she's trying flag down a cab!

The other day, Addison and I were headed out for a stroll around the neighborhood when it started to rain. I casually mentioned that I should push Addison around the house in her stroller since she was already strapped in and eagerly holding on like she was ready for some heavy duty riding. Without missing a beat, Aaron grabbed a towel and started cleaning her dirt packed stroller wheels so that she could enjoy her anticipated stroller ride indoors. By the sounds of her giggles and the size of her smile, Addison loved speeding around the house in her stroller. I don't think she cared that we didn't pass any trees, flowers, or barking dogs. The rain was not interfering with her daily stroller ride. I can only smile when he offers his physical and verbal assistance to our 10- month-old to help her stand, roll a ball, or chew. Yes, Aaron actually demonstrates chewing to our toothless Addison when he feels that she is swallowing her food without gumming it. I love how excited Aaron gets when Addison masters a new skill--ANY skill, rather big or small. Moments like these remind me of why I so wanted Aaron to experience fatherhood. I'm forever grateful to Addison for giving Aaron the honor of receiving these special blessings that come along with the role of "Da-da".

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful testimony of Aaron's relationship to his daughter. It actually made me well up at my desk.

Diane said...

Hey,

I'm new to the EthiopiaGA group. My husband and I are waiting for a referral. It's been 2 months now. We asked for a boy. We plan on naming him Atticus. ALthough we didn't choose if for this reason, I like that it evokes Addis. I noticed that you named your daughter Addison for that reason, and I wanted to comment.

Maybe Atticus and Addison will have an opportunity to play!

Diane

Single PAP said...

Hi there!
I have been following your blog and this post was so-o-o sweet. I got tears in my eyes reading it. How special! I am about to embark on the adoption process (through Gladney) for an Ethiopian girl. Of all the blogs I read you and Aaron are the only Black family I have seen. Do you know of any others? Just curious... (I am African American and will be doing this solo). Feel free to check out my blog. mommyin2008.blogspot.com
Take care,
Laura
P.S. Addison is adorable!

DEBRA said...

Hi there,

My name is debbie and we are from Canada. We are waiting to travel to Ethiopia to pick up our 2 little girls. I love your honesty and your sincereity shines through. congratulations on becoming parents....it truely is a gift!

Debbie